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Thursday, April 10, 2025

Music has charms to soothe a savage breast!


My sister is in a nursing home. She has signs of vascular dementia, but still knows who her visitors are and has an amazing memory for many things. One of the charming and funny experiences with her is that she makes surprising, and often hilarious, connections. One of the aides is named Priscilla. Whenever she comes in Jeanne tends to say "Priscilla Presley." The aide is a youngster; I'm not sure she even knows who Priscilla Presley is. 

When I mentioned a conversation with another resident named Charlotte, Jeanne's immediate reaction was "Charlotte's Web," E.B. Whites delightful story about the helpful spider who saves Wilbur, the pig, from slaughter by writing things in her web.

Yesterday, when I was talking to my sister on the phone, she mentioned the visit of another sister. We were discussing food, and Jeanne said, "She likes reubens." I replied, "I like them too." And then she immediately began singing, "Reuben, Reuben, I've been thinking...." I hadn't thought of that song for years and could only remember the first verse, so I did a search. What a delightful song and how many of our modern children have ever heard it? So many of the old songs are lost and forgotten. How sad! 

It makes me think of so many other songs so familiar in the past. If you asked your grandchildren to sing one of these campfire songs could they? Maybe one or, perhaps, two.What about you? Do you remember them?

  • I've Been Working on the Railroad
  • Darling Clementine
  • She'll Be Comin' Around the Mountain
  • I Dream of Jeannie with the Light Brown Hair
  • My Bonnie Lies Over the Ocean
  • Home on the Range

  • Oh Susanna

  • The Happy Wanderer
  • This Land is Your Land
  • The Bear Went Over the Mountain
As I was thinking about this, it brought so many memories of campfires growing up and here at Camp Kreitzer around our fire pit. In my search on line I came across this site and it's lovely explanation about The Magic of Campfire Songs. I absolutely agree. 
The Magic of Campfire Songs

Campfire songs are all about bringing people together. Whether you’re singing a classic or a new hit, they create unforgettable moments. There’s something magical about gathering around a fire, joining voices, and creating memories that last. 
Why They Work

Campfire songs are simple and easy to sing, which makes them perfect for everyone. You don’t have to be a pro singer—just join in! The catchy choruses and repetitive verses make it fun for all ages, from kids to grandparents.

The Power of Nostalgia

Many campfire songs are classics passed down through generations. Songs like “Kumbaya” or “This Land is Your Land” bring a sense of nostalgia, reminding us of simpler times. Singing these songs around a fire connects us to the past while creating new memories in the present. 
Creating Connection

What makes campfire songs so special is their ability to unite people. They tap into emotions and create a sense of togetherness. The fire, the music, and the shared experience all combine to make the moment feel extra special. Campfire songs do more than entertain—they bond, uplift, and make every gathering feel a little bit more magical.

I'm going to see my sister today and I think I will sing some of these songs with her. There's definitely something magical about singing. It truly does soothe the heart, as William Congreve wrote in his play, The Mourning Bride, "Music has charms to soothe a savage breast." The quote is often attributed to Shakespeare. Perhaps Congreve who was born about 100 years after Shakespeare remembered the music in The Tempest that seemed to have a calming effect on the monster, Caliban. And that may explain the frequent misquote that "Music has charms to soothe the savage beast." 

What about you? 

Do you turn to music when you're mourning or frazzled? Does music soothe your heart? Personally, I often go sit at the piano and play Bach's Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring when I'm overwhelmed or feeling down in the dumps. It's my favorite piece of classical music and has often seen me through hard times. 

May we never forget the power of music to soothe a savage and suffering breast.

4 comments:

  1. When I was little I learned some of these old songs from my great aunts. My favorite was the one about "the moon shines tonight on pretty Red Wing." Also memorized parts of some poems by Longfellow, like Hiawatha and The Courtship of Miles Standish. Hadn't thought about these for years, thanks for the memories.

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  2. My 2 little grands like She'll Be Comin' Around the Mountain while I bounce them on my knees. I probably could remember the words for the others if I thought about it.

    I don't know that my own children know those songs but we sang and had music in the house. A lot of Disney songs. My grands love music too. The 4 year loves Mary Poppins, Bolero and Hungarian Rhapsody no. 2. The baby favors the Blue Danube. Their daddy sings in a traditional choir so there's those lovely songs they hear.

    There's some more contemporary music we listen to but I favor classical so they hear that most often (as I watch them during the week. Lol)

    Music is part of each day around here. Beautiful music is an endless gift. I never tire of listening.

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  3. Amen to this! I started in high school in 1967 right when Vatican II had started taking a toll on the Catholic church. 1971 - 1975 I was in college, a Catholic one, Benedictine in Atchison Kansas. For all intents purposes I was an apostate Catholic especially in college away from my very devout Polish Mother. I never saw the inside of a Catholic church all thru high school and college. High school I would go out cruising with the guys on a Saturday night and we would stop by a local parish to pick up a bulletin from any parish along the way as evidence to my mom that we went to mass Saturday night, another flaw of Vatican II. Freshman year parents weekend 1971 I knew I had to go to mass as mom was coming up. That Sunday the monks in the monastery got permission from the local bishop to read the old Latin mass, not just a low mass but a solomn high mass. This was with 3 priests, an army of altar boys and...........wait for it................the beautiful saintly music of Schuburts mass in C. The most beautiful thing I had ever seen or heard. To this day it gives me goose bumps and.........brings a little tear to the eye. That Sunday was the only thing that kept me a Catholic.

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  4. What a Wonderful World, sung by Louis Armstrong

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