It wasn't supposed to end this way! |
After reading the link above, I can honestly say, this is exactly
why I would never vote for a woman for president. We cry. Inconsolably. EVEN the toughest women among
us and apparently Hillary is no exception.
Men also cry, but in almost every case it is when the love in their
heart overflows, not when they are disappointed or unable to cope. Almost never does it
prevent them from doing what must be done when they are called to act. They are not disabled by their tears, they
are, in fact, often inspired by them.
In the book, The Dark Side of the Moon, which includes a collection of true accounts of the atrocities within Russia, the authors of
individual testimonies made it clear that often it was the female in a family
of Russian prisoners of war from Poland and Ukraine who managed to survive when
the husbands had given up due to the suffering they endured. Women are
good at suffering, maybe even better than men over the long haul. The men
in these situations could not see any path that would restore their role as
provider, protector, defender and they gave up and died of their starvation and
deprivation long before the women in the same circumstances. The women
survived because they expected to suffer and knew how to deal with it.
But women don’t deal well with injustice and perceived unfairness. Men
live out their entire careers understanding that “office politics” and job
opportunities are almost never fair.
Men accept defeat in battle and shake hands with previous enemies, even
when they know justice has not been
handed out. They also get in bar room brawls and after duking it out for
twenty minutes, sit down and drink beer together. Women would NEVER do
that.
The Church has wisely established an all male hierarchy, not as
any slight to women, but in recognition of the fact that men and women make
decisions differently. We are entirely complimentary to each other, but
different nonetheless. Viva la difference! Satan tempted Eve, not
Adam in the Garden of Eden for a reason. Not that she was not as smart as
Adam, but because injustice was more likely to matter to her and she would be
easier to tempt with the old lie of equality than Adam would have been.
Hillary cried the way she did because she is a woman. A man in her situation
would have felt the same enormous loss, but he would have dealt with it. She
fell apart. I don’t want a leader who can’t deal with the worst case
scenario. I want one strong enough to bear the pain of loss in any
situation and remain focused on what is, in the end, the right thing to do, be
it just or unjust, fair or unfair.
Who knew Hillary was even capable of crying? I’ve always
thought she was tough as nails, that she didn’t have an emotional bone in her
body. Guess what? When stuck, she bleeds just like the rest of
us. She cried because it wasn’t fair
that she didn’t win. It was her turn! She cried because after
having done her best to support Obama he let her down by not stopping the FBI
when he had the power to do so. She didn’t cry because Trump got more
electoral votes than she did. She cried because the outcome was not what
she believed would be just and fair.
Well, life isn’t just. Justice is ultimately in God’s
hands. And total fairness is a myth. My son-in-law, Aaron, can
retrieve anything on the top shelf of my kitchen cabinets and I cannot.
How fair is that? Life isn’t ever fair. It simply is what it
is. Somehow men understand that, while women insist on whining about it.
I understand Hillary’s disappointment. I too have cried
inconsolably a few times in my life, but however much I may sympathize with her pain, I am so thankful
she is not our next president. Our next leader will need great strength
and manly resolve to guide this nation in the days ahead. May God bless
him.
I'm sure they cleared the area of ash trays when it was clear she wasn't going to win.
ReplyDeleteWell said, Mary Ann.
ReplyDeleteBefore I read your post much of what you said entered my mind yesterday morning after reading the article.
We need leaders to be calm, cool and collected in the face of adversity. HRC's reaction to the loss of this election shows, in my mind anyway, (and *has shown* in differing ways during her campaign) why she does not have the fortitude for the office of the POTUS.
Catechist Kev
WikiLeaks: Clinton Team contributed directly to the election of Donald Trump, President-elect of the United States of America. The wicked are snared in the work of their own hands. - http://wp.me/p2Na5H-PS
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